If you were to ever show up to my house on Christmas Eve, you'd find that the area under the Christmas tree which is usually reserved for wrapped gifts is pretty bare (if not completely). Aside from the few gifts our sons receive from loved ones who insist on doing so, the tree trunk stands alone. However, if you were to take a glance at our six Christmas stockings hanging from the mantle, you'd quickly recognize where most of our time and attention is spent. Each stocking is plush and full to the brim with letters, poetry, and plenty of artwork. It's the little things in those stockings that fills our hearts and lives for the day.
I've said it before and I'll say it again: I have no qualms with people buying and exchanging Christmas gifts. I appreciate the idea of focusing time and finances to prioritize others, and I definitely admire all of the charitable efforts that effectively help those who are less fortunate at the end of the year. Still, I long for the day when we can embrace the holidays with more focus on faith in God and simple acts of kindness, rather than on what we wish we had to give others, what we plan to buy for them, or what we resent not receiving from the people we love.
There's nothing I hate more during the Christmas season than to see faces full of anguish and voices cracking with embarrassment as mothers, fathers, sisters, and brothers express their disappointment for not having enough spending money to buy Christmas gifts. Can't we all just get back to simpler times, when Christmas meant so much more than opening gifts and comparing presents?
I pray for the day when gift exchanges take a back seat to expressions of faith, family, and fellowship during the Christmas season. I have complete confidence and hope that my prayer will one day become an answered reality. In the meantime, I will remain thirsty for simplicity.
Wow. I'm so happy, blessed, and privileged to call you my friend. Thank you for sharing and helping us see what's important. May God richly expand your borders.
ReplyDeleteTish said...
ReplyDelete...simple acts of kindness have become so valuable to me. Gifts are nice, but I enjoy when people take the time out to send a card or say something nice. It encourages me to be more "selfless" and to pay-forward and reciprocate that love. Thank you Cris.
And I feel the same way about you, Melody. You are such a blessing to my life.
ReplyDeleteExactly, Tish! Somehow we've forgotten that it's the little things that tend to have the greatest impact.
ReplyDeleteWow how far you've come. I love your blogs and hope the best!
ReplyDeleteFirst Son,
Kevin Jr
Thank you Kevin - I'm smiling from the inside out! :-)
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